Genital Torture and Teasing - C&BT -

Stands for Cock & Ball Torture or teasing as the case maybe. "Genitorture" stands for "genital torture". This is a subject that makes some men clutch their nuts and run in fear, and makes other men instantly erect and greedy for more. The male genitals are at once the most vulnerable and most sensitive part of the male body, so of course many dommes, like myself, enjoy playing with them.

Cock Rings

Cock rings are rings that go around your cock, typically around the base of it, behind the balls. The penis becomes erect when the blood vessels at its base constrict (because of arousal), trapping blood in the cock and causing it to swell. Cock rings can also prolong an erection in most men that use them. (They also constrict the urethra, which will make any orgasm more painful, or even cause ejaculate to back up into the bladder. However, this is not dangerous unless done repeatedly. Experiment to find out how much tightness is too much.)

Most are made of leather, with adjustable snaps, so you can tighten or loosen them to fit (as well as remove them easily). Some are made of rubber. Some are even made of metal, but metal ones can be hazardous; if you put a too-small one on your non-erect cock, your cock may become so erect that you can no longer remove it--and if it is too tight, it will prevent your cock from softening. This may involve a trip to the emergency room and the use of bolt cutters.

Some cock rings have multiple rings, for behind the balls, around the balls themselves, and around the base of the shaft. Some people like using lots of cock rings, to stretch the balls out away from the body, or just to create different sensations of bondage.

Safety tips

The broadest guideline is to go slowly until you know how much you can take. If the pain from a particular activity starts to spread into other areas of the body, or if the pain lasts for a long time after the stimulation ends, you have probably gone beyond your limits. You won't reach this point generally if you take your time. As with any SM practice, if you find yourself in pain later, or if you notice any abnormalities in your cock or balls when flaccid or erect, see a doctor. Of course, avoid any practice that seriously wrenches or twists the genitals; there are many ligaments and blood vessels in there, damage to which may make it hard for you to get hard at other times.... However, the cock and balls can handle light whipping or slapping, provided it is done with care and by someone who knows where to whip, and where not to.....

Cock and ball bondage can also be done with leather strips, ribbons, velvet cords, etc. Be as ornamental as you please; tying up an erect cock can create a luscious work of art, and teasing it can be even more artistic.

Don't expect C&B bondage to keep a cock hard indefinitely; cocks will usually get soft if not stimulated, and bondage which will keep it hard may be dangerously tight. In any event, be sure you can remove your bondage quickly, as always.

Dominant Women tend to exert control over their male slaves. One common control exercised is the control of male sexuality. There are several ways this can be accomplished.

The first is to prohibit the slave any form of sexual expression including masturbation. Along with the prohibition comes a punishment for the crime of sexual expression. The crime should be known to the slave for greater certainty in the Mistress / slave relationship.

Another way to control male sexuality is by means of genital restraints. These are various in nature, but generally stop the male's ability to attain erections. Often there is built into the restraint a mechanism to produce pain if the male organ should attempt to erect. This mechanism may include pins or needles which push into the male's genitalia upon the slightest sign of erection.

The third option open to the Mistress is castration of the slave. The purpose here is to effectively eliminate the excess production of the male hormone, testosterone. Castration can be done by two methods. The first is chemical castration. This involves administering a chemical to the male which counter-effects the testosterone produced by the male's testes. The second is surgical castration. This involves the surgical removal of both testes. This procedure is subject to the laws of the country in which the operation is performed. Most countries have strict regulations on castration surgery. Most medical practitioners will only perform the surgery if the patient requires such for medical reasons. The most two common medical reasons are cancer of the testes and prostate cancer. Castration surgery involves the opening of the scrotal sac and excising of the two testes. Castration surgery is performed as part of a sex change operation in conjunction with other surgeries and female hormone treatment.

A word of caution to any males contemplating non medical castration surgery and to Dominant Females who contemplate castrating willing males. As mentioned earlier, you must be aware of the laws in your country regarding castration surgery in a non medical environment. Any surgery in a medical environment is strictly controlled in most countries. Also the term willing males must be strictly observed. The male must be a willing participant.

Most males and Dominant Females use genital torture to accomplish their goals. Genital torture involves the torture of male genitalia by usually the Dominant Female. Again this is done with the consent of the male involved. Genital torture involves the striking of the genitalia with a small cane or whip, electro shock to the genitals, opening of the scrotal sac and setting the genitals on fire. The variety of genital torture is usually up to the Mistress but this is usually accompanied by male consent. The laws regarding castration surgery in most countries do not generally prohibit Dominant Females from counselling males who have a castration fixation.

In Paris, France there exists an organization known as the " Theatre du Supplices ". Actually we have no information as to whether they still exist but have only heard of their prior existence by means of articles in magazines which tell of such. They apparently exist at an ever changing address and exist in total secrecy. In the "Theatre", male volunteers are ritually put to death by Dominant Females with other Dominant Females observing. The process generally includes castration of the male victim with other procedures involving faeces. We have no other knowledge of their operations or whether they still exist. Apparently there is not lack of male volunteers nor Dominant Females who wish to observe this process.

Castration has been quite common in times past. There are several references to the term " eunuch " in The Holy Bible. Male volunteers were often made eunuchs to obtain a position of trust. Many positions such as harem keeper required such. Also peoples at war often castrated the captured soldiers. This implied a punishment for their military service to the opposing side and ensured that no further offspring would come from these soldiers. In various countries, prisoners were castrated as part of their sentence.

For Females Only

A great deal can also be done with female genitalia. Some women love having clothespins on their pussy lips; some love light whipping on their outer labia, or even their clitoris. Sometimes body piercings can be used for bondage; labia piercings can hold a pussy open very delightfully, or clit hood piercings can be tied up out of the way with thread, leaving the clit naked and exposed. Some women like soft fur on their pussy; others like to be alternately soothed and tormented until they can stand no more.

Again, go slowly. Do not blow into the vagina, whatever else you do. Don't leave clamps on very long until you know how much your partner enjoys and how it will feel to her the next day when the scene is over. Too much of one kind of sensation can become irritating quickly; change the stimulation, keep your bottom aroused and surprised. There are all sorts of things that can be used on female genitals; bamboo skewers, candles, cheese graters, clips, fly swatter, ice cubes, knives, latex squares, leather thongs, massage bongers, rabbit fur, ropes, scalp scrubber, silk, spoons, towels, weights, and whips are items that can be useful in giving your bottom's genitals a ride they won't forget.

Communication is paramount in female genital play; women's pussies vary as much as any other part of women's' bodies (or more), and responses will vary equally dramatically. In general, the same sort of rhythm discussed in the whipping section is useful in cunt play, though if anything the top needs to go even more slowly, as the sensations will be more intense and focused than in almost any other kind of sensation scene.

One final tidbit: apparently, for many women, a common pre-orgasmic response is for the clit to retreat into its hood. If you are giving your partner some very delicious sensation (possibly combined with some just-right pain) and her clit disappears, don't stop! (Unless you want to avoid her orgasm... don't push this too far, unless your bottom's feet are tied down--she may kick.) And know your limits; if your bottom really wants an orgasm to end the scene, giving her one may make her extremely grateful to you, and waiting too long may burn you both out. This is good stuff to negotiate about beforehand in any scene--how would you like the scene to end? Breaking such an agreement will engender mistrust, but honesty, as always, will help everyone get what they want.